One morning I was driving from my apartment near Love Field to the UTD
Downtown campus. It was raining heavily and it was also very cold outside. As I was
thinking about my upcoming class and contemplating what to do during the following
weekend, my car suddenly sputtered and began to die. Now as any single 22 year old
female would do, who is having car trouble in Downtown Dallas, I began to freak out
and wonder why God would do this to me. I hurriedly called my dad as my car slowed
down and asked him what was wrong with my car. He diagnosed my problem as a
shortage of gas. I realized I had been driving for several days with the gas tank gauge
on E, believing that I would never actually run out of gas. By now my car was
coasting down a very busy street, cars were zipping by honking their horns and giving
me dirty looks and friendly gestures. My dad asked me where the nearest gas station
was and whether or not I thought I could get there by coasting. Suddenly, God
answered my cry for help, not but a few blocks ahead was a gas station.
Unfortunately I realized that to get into the gas station I had to drive up an incline.
The odds of me getting to the gas station AND up the hill were very miniscule due to
the crawl I had come to. As I approach the gas station my car came to a complete
standstill in the middle of a busy road, in the midst of construction, on a packed road
in downtown Dallas. I did what any rational person would do at this moment; I got
out of the car and began to push. The longer I pushed the wetter I got. The harder I
pushed the more frustrated I got. I realized that despite my efforts my car was going
nowhere fast and I was only getting wetter by the second. Suddenly out of the corner
of my eye I saw a figure approach the back bumper and begin to push. Shortly
thereafter another person got the other side of the pumper and gave a heave. Before I
knew it there were 5 individuals giving direction and help as we together pushed my
car into the gas station to refill the take. Suddenly it hit me... the man stationed on the
back right bumper was the older gentleman I have seen for the last five mornings
asking for spare change at an intersection nearby. The young man shouting out
instructions to me as I steered the car was the individual I had ignored as he walk past
me asking for work under the interstate overpass. The woman clearing out traffic was
the bearer of the sign that said, “Will work for food” that I have pitied throughout the
semester. I knew these people. These were the people I was too busy too help. My life
had intersected theirs every day for the last several weeks and I had never done
anything to help. Yet when I needed help they were the first and only ones to my aid.
The doctors on the way to their office didn’t stop. The lawyers on the way to breakfast
with their clients didn’t stop. The teacher on the way to his class didn’t stop. No, it was
the ones who were neglected, pitied, and forgotten on a daily basis that stopped to help
me out. Lord, please forgive me. Please forgive my haughty attitude. Please rid me of
my pride.
Talk about knocking you down a step. When I heard this story I knew it had to be
shared. As I read Philippians 2, I realize that we very rarely humble ourselves, instead it
is people or circumstances that do it for us. Yet, Paul writes that Jesus humbled
himself. He took the initiative and put us before himself. He put our interests above his
own. If we are going to be unified as a body of Christ then we must take a page out of
Jesus
own. Adele Calhoun says in her book,
corporate, political, economic, and social hierarchies, humility is a hard sell. After all,
who wants to be on the bottom of the heap, last in line or out of the loop? People
scramble to have others realize how gifted, qualified, valuable, and productive they are.
Folks compete so they won
Let me ask you a question... does that sound like a group of people you want to be
around? Let us journey down the road towards unity by putting others before ourselves.
My prayer is that we are a group of Christians that is more concerned about meeting
other
Lord, give us the courage to raise our eyes up past our own problems to see those
hurting around us.